I wish I was getting some, but that’s a different post.
Here are my top 10 suggestion for improving your sex life:
- Watch any of the movies on my Top 10 Sexy Movies post. That should put you both in the mood and none of it is porn.
- If your SO likes porn, I recommend porn by Candida Royalle or Dane Jones – its a special kind of porn made specifically for women (think kissing, no gyno shots, and lots of focus on the woman’s pleasure).
- Wine. Lots of it. Nothing says “boink me” quite like a wine buzz.
- Take a trip to a local Adult Bookstore and check out the toys. Buy what appeals to you. Enjoy them at home later.
- Relax. Find a way to get the chores done early and get the kids to bed early and just enjoy each other’s company. No talking shop.
- Swap massages. This is good because (A) you have to get naked, and (B) you get to touch and be touched by your SO. Two birds, one stone.
- Have a nice romantic dinner, just the two of you. Talk about your dreams and passions, instead of business and household topics.
- Men, read this post on performing oral sex. ‘Nuff said.
- Ladies, take a class on giving a blow job. I’m taking one in less than a week. Post pending.
- Talk. Just start talking with each other. Reconnect. Rejoin. Physical intimacy follows emotional intimacy.