Truth be told, I don’t like it when I’m not working on putting together a costume.
I wonder what the theme will be for the next Village meeting or the next birthday party.
If I knew, I could start planning already.
I checked out a Michael Jackson costume – Totally 80’s!
I also looked into a St. Patrick’s Day costume. Everything green!
In the end, I decided to put together a Pyrate costume.
Mind you, this is my SECOND pyrate costume.
I already have one which I wore to a Pyrate Party 6 years ago.
I remember my ex boyfriend and I had just broken up and I went to the party single while he brought a date.
And his date spent the entire evening hanging all over him trying to make me feel bad.
And I did. Until my new theme song “So What” by Pink! started playing over the speakers.
“So, so what?
I’m still a rock star
I got my rock moves
And I don’t need you
And guess what
I’m having more fun
And now that we’re done
I’m gonna show you tonight
I’m alright, I’m just fine
And you’re a tool
So, so what?”
Then I felt how strong I truly was. Able to stand on my own two feet in the face of opposition.
In any case, not long after that song played my ex and his mean girl date left the party.
He wasn’t having fun.
Years later we discussed the evening’s events and he apologized for her behavior.
He always was a good guy.
In any case, I now have a second pyrate costume I can wear that has no complex emotional associations.
Just me, a short skirt, and a swashbuckler’s hat.
What could be better?