So here I am in my early 40’s wondering why I’m still single.
I know a lot of people in this boat.
And we’re all for the most part reasonably attractive, educated, and funny.
I’m left wondering what is going on. Is there something materially missing from my life or am I suffering from personal shortcomings?
I came to the casual sex party a little late in the game – partly because I was married for 10+ years in my 20s, and partly because I was a Catholic for 30+ years.
Casual sex was a no-no.
Serial monogamy was acceptable.
Fast forward to the future, and my love life is all but non-existent.
That’s when casual sex started looking good.
And sometimes, I’m just saying sometimes, it just seems a lot easier to find a casual partner with no hint of relationship longevity than it is to deal with the pretenses of a relationship.
I’m just saying.
Casual sex can be a beautiful thing.