For instance, I don’t like to date men who are “separated.” Call me crazy, but a man who is still married IS A MAN WHO IS STILL MARRIED.
End of story.
That’s unavailable, my friends.
And I’m trying to avoid that.
Then there are the ones who have never ever been married.
I also try to stay away from these.
In my experience, if a man hasn’t fallen head over heels in love enough to get married by the time he’s 40, he likely has impossible standards or significant baggage.
I’ll take a pass.
And of course I also avoid men who want children.
Because OBVIOUSLY I’m done with that chapter in my life.
The only way I’m getting more kids is as stepkids.
Finally, I avoid men who have too many pictures up of themselves in their profiles.
It’s just a wonky little bias that I have that too many pictures = too much ego.
Thanks but no thanks.
You wouldn’t think that would be so hard to find but let me tell you. . .
NEEDLE IN A FUCKING HAYSTACK!