Not surprisingly, attending Burning Man introduced me to many new things including people who embrace a poly lifestyle.
Believe you me, you don’t know what it’s like to see someone celebrate her boyfriend’s birthday with her husband in tow, but it’s a little bit of a mind blower!
And it’s all kosher.
If a little out of the mainstream.
Then there’s the kink.
I’ve become familiar with role play, ropes, and kinky stuff I’m not willing to admit to on this blog.
It’s enough to make me less-than-vanilla but not a full blown kinkster.
I think life would be easier if I was fully vanilla or fully kinky.
But this in between stage is awkward.
Since I’m looking for a monogamous relationship, which leans more to the vanilla side of things, I wonder what potential mates will think of my poly and kinky friends.
So I guess I need to find someone flexible, open-minded, and semi kinky, just like me!