Each time I’ve gone to Burning Man – all two times – I’ve sworn that I’m never going back.
In 2016 I was motivated by a desire to improve on my 2015 experience.
In 2017, I’m motivated by the friendships I’ve established.
I didn’t know it at the time, but when I bought my first Burning Man ticket, I was baptized into a community of creatives, crazies, talents, artists, musicians, dancers, athletes and weirdos.
A large part of my social life is now dedicated to Burning Man events and people.
So much so, that I feel like a broken record when I go on dates or write The Swede emails.
Eventually, I always talk about Burning Man.
I can practically see some people in my family roll their eyes in their heads when I bring it up.
But I can’t help it.
It’s so much a part of my life that I wonder, “Can I actually establish a relationship with a man who ISN’T a burner?”
Well, there are lots of couples out there with mixed burner-affiliation – one is a burner, the other is a non-burner.
So the answer to that question is YES.
But there has to be a level of understanding and support for the burner.
I think it’s possible to be an honorary burner – to have never set foot on the playa and yet be a loyal supporter of Burning Man.
I know a woman who was integral in helping her husband develop a spinning teeter totter for the burn.
I know another woman who crocheted all sorts of cool outfits for her husband’s burn.
Going to Burning Man is like becoming a parent – there’s no way to fully understand it until it happens to you.
I don’t expect potential dates to understand what I’m talking about when I mention my Burning Man experiences, but I do hope it makes them curious.
And of course, I hope that given my passion for the event, that their curiosity translates into support for all my Burning Man activities and adventures.
Because somewhere between “I’m never going again” and “I could give it another go,” I’ve gotten hooked.
Totally, 100%, completely hooked.