I have roughly 500 friends on Facebook.
Yesterday, as an experiment, I counted how many of my Facebook friends were ex-lovers.
Out of 500, there were 17.
17 ex-lovers – 16 men and 1 woman.
Hey, I had an experimental phase.
No current lovers, mind you.
As I was making my way through the list of friends, I had to do a double take a few times and ask myself, “Did we sleep together?”
Sometimes the answer was “No, we just OMed.”
There are nearly 50 men on Facebook who I OMed with.
Other times, the answer was, “No, we just fooled around a bit but no sex.”
Like with my friend “Nathan” who I used to watch porn with and let him grope me.
And even still, the answer was occasionally, “No, but I REALLY wanted to.”
And there are SEVERAL men who fall into that category.
If I counted all the people who I’ve had some sort of sexual activity with, I’m sure my number would jump in leaps and bounds.
Truthfully, I was surprised there were that many ex-lovers on my Facebook page.
Historically, I’m not the best at keeping in touch with past partners.
I guess Facebook is heralding in the age of long term friendships with exes.
I don’t think that’s a bad thing.
It’s actually quite nice to see them doing well and having a good time.
And of course, still lusting after the good ones!