In case you didn’t know, my first husband was a police officer.
He was about as straight as they come.
Also as it turns out, a bit on the combative side.
After 10 years of marriage, I called it quits.
I was expecting to find a partner who would give my boys another example of how a man behaves.
I’ve now dated several men who I felt represented what I want my sons to grow up to be like.
Unfortunately, none of them have stuck around, but there’s still time.
In the last few years, since I’ve been going to Burning Man, I’ve met all variety of men.
In an “open” relationship.
I must say, I have found something appealing in most of the varieties that men come in.
But when it comes down to it, I’m still looking for a man who fits the bill.
I had a conversation with a friend lately where he professed his unending loyalty to his wife, which I thought was so sweet.
I don’t come across too many monogamous men.
“You are a rare and principled man,” I told him, giving his quite possibly THE BEST COMPLIMENT I CAN GIVE SOMEONE.
And that’s when it hit me.
What I’m looking for?
My own rare and principled man.