So, I have a dilemma.
I’ve given up internet dating.
This is a good thing.
Internet dating was damaging my view of men in the Bay Area.
I felt stuck in a porno, unable to escape.
Every man wanted sex – from the guy who described his ideal woman as someone without a gag reflex to the guy whose username was Luv2eatacos.
Fuck actually making a connection with someone.
This I think, is not the norm.
I mean of course men want sex.
But I think there are men out there who are single, available, and NOT TOTALLY OBSESSED WITH SEX.
Let’s call them Men-Who-Can-Make-Meaningful-Connections-With-Women.
My dilemma is this:
HOW DO YOU MEET MEN LIKE THIS?
They’re OBVIOUSLY not online.
So where do I go?
Please, someone tell me because the only thing I hate more than giving up is giving up and doing nothing about it.
I have no intention of wallowing in misery, alone for the rest of my life.
But I also have no intention of going back online to play the nymphomaniac to men who think that women are sex objects.
Should I just leave it to serendipity or should I somehow mix and mingle and put myself out there?