And we had the BEST conversation.
I talked to him about Burning Man.
He talked about Landmark Forum, EST, etc.
It has been a long time since I had a good conversation like that, IRL.
And it got me thinking about connections.
It’s been REALLY challenging for me to connect with new people lately.
And that is 100% of the reason why I gave up internet dating.
Because I got tired of men telling me “we have no chemistry” when they themselves were spending no effort trying to connect.
How many times have you gone on a date that was word-for-word EXACTLY the same as a previous date: names, hometown, jobs, kids, hobbies, etc.
If you want to connect with me, don’t tell me your stats.
Tell me a secret.
Nobody wants to connect to other people anymore.
Nobody wants to be vulnerable.
That’s why vulnerability is so disarming.
And that’s why I love Burning Man so much.
You may think of burners as a bunch of weirdos and freaks, but I know them to be caring, vulnerable, and extraordinary people.
Friends and lovers are people we’ve chosen to be vulnerable with.
That’s what makes the connection special.
I want to spend more time having real dialogues and waste less time having cookie-cutter conversations.
Sam has helped me to realize that connection is out there, you just need to look for it.
And in case you haven’t noticed, vulnerability is my forte.
Hence, this blog.