But as I was perusing the internet, I came across an article on “How to be Irresistible to Men” and I was intrigued. Why would anyone read this garbage? Research, my friends.
The first article suggested that being a nice girl is all it takes to be irresistible to men. This I can partially agree with. As we’re looking for mates out there, it’s our confidence, humor, and kindness which will interest a man and make him want to get to know us more.
The second article I read listed a bunch of things that has really nothing to do with personality and everything to do with body language. Flirting.
- Flipping our hair
- Biting our lips
- Moving our hips
- Touching them gently
- Wearing a ponytail
All these are well and good, but rather superficial, don’t you think? Are you really irresistible if their attraction to you only lasts 20 seconds? I think not.
The final article I read suggested that a youthful attitude, sexual adventurousness, being comfortable in your own skin, talking about what you love, body language, and being able to tease (aka create sexual tension) makes a woman irresistible to men. Not a bad list, although it certainly requires the parties to get to know each other a bit.
If you were to ask me what makes a woman irresistible, I’d say her openness. It’s how she welcomes you to her. It’s how she greets you in those first 30 seconds when a man makes up his mind about whether or not he desires her. It’s also how much of her personality leaks through into real life, grabs a man by the ears, and says “Look at me.” Whether she communicates this through body language or conversation is up to her.
We can’t be irresistible to everyone but to the right people – the ones who become our lovers and our friends – we are magnetic.
So my suggestion is don’t worry about being irresistible. Just be yourself. The rest will take care of itself.