Given my previous posts on the topic, some of you are wondering whether the new guy and I have gotten physical.
The answer is yes and he kisses like a dream.
I have yet to kiss that man and feel like I’ve had my fill.
I always walk away wanting more.
But no, we haven’t actually ‘done the deed.’
Does this bother me?
No and yes.
First of all, I think it’s great that I’ve slowed my roll long enough to stop, take a breath, and appreciate the person I’m in the process of getting to know.
The new guy is really awesome.
So capable, smart, and funny.
With interesting hobbies – like Star Trek, tinkering with cars, camping, and Comic-Con.
You can be sure there are two things in my future: a Star Trek costume and wandering around Comic-Con in a Princess Leia costume.
Secondly, there’s something to be said for getting to know someone first before jumping in bed with them.
I know, I know.
I can’t believe I’m saying it too, but I have to admit, I REALLY like this guy.
So much so, that I feel totally and 100% comfortable waiting patiently until the right moment arrives.
HOWEVER, I am ever so slightly turned on – all the time.
My porn consumption has increased (yes, it has).
And I fantasize about having a moment alone with him, just the two of us, with no interruptions, no kids, no distractions, just him and me.
We will be going to the Gilroy Garlic Festival in the coming weekend.
And I was all excited because (you know) SLEEPOVER!
However, now it looks like there will be family staying over at the new guy’s place which throws a wrench in my erotic plans.
Nevertheless, I get to hang with him and his friends for the festival and that’s more than enough to make me happy.
Erotic plans or no.