It’s THE WORST!
It’s not like I have nothing to write about, it’s that I don’t FEEL like writing about what’s on my mind.
Thus my struggle.
Instead of writing about my thoughts and feelings, I’m going to write a post about internet dating.
Namely things I’ve noticed in people’s profiles that send up a red flag and make me swipe left.
To begin with, anyone who attended THE SCHOOL OF HARD KNOCKS.
Got news for you pal, EVERYONE has gone to that school.
Oh sure, maybe a sparklepony somewhere is living a charmed life, but overall, NO ONE GETS OUT UNSCATHED.
It makes me worry a bit when you tell me that’s your alma mater.
Second thing: Men who post every photo of themselves in sunglasses.
Call me crazy but I like to see a person’s eyes.
It’s the only way to tell the difference between smiling and smirking.
And I’m not one for the latter.
I like genuine smiles.
Third: Single. No kids. Never been married.
Why, you may wonder?
Because in my experience those are the people who have been so picky in the past that no one makes them happy and you’re certainly not going to break that streak for them.
I trust the person who has tried and failed and knows the stresses and strains of having a family.
And another: Anyone with my ex-husband’s first name.
It’s not that I dislike him, it’s that I don’t like to be REMINDED of him.
I know, totally unfair but do you want to date someone with the same name as your ex?
FINALLY: Uses a celebrity’s photo as their profile pic.
I really don’t understand this.
If you’re not the person in the photo, don’t use the photo.
People who hide their photos are hiding something else too and I’m not down with that.