So I’m going on a lot of first dates, a few second dates, and virtually no one has stuck.
Ironically, I’ve made more friends on Tinder than lovers and it’s just a testament to my stubbornness that I’m online AT ALL!
Gradually, over time I’ve begun to question the wisdom of blogging my dates with men on this site.
I mean, exactly how many men want to be preceded by their “reputation” when dating me?
I think it’s clear to me that the answer is NO ONE.
And so it is with tremendous thought and self-reflection that I’ve decided to slow down my blogging and eliminate my dating life from my daily journals.
I’m sure it comes with GREAT SATISFACTION to some of my friends who have been advocating for this for years.
The Photographer is one such advocate, who has told me every chance he gets to SLOW DOWN BLOGGING MEN!
Michelle is another friend who supports the “less is more” movement on unblunder.
Needless to say I’m a little nervous about having enough content to post every day.
My quilting and costuming posts are never as popular as my dating posts.
But that’s something I can live with if it creates a little space for someone to actually enter my life, without judgment or prejudice, and enjoy my company for a little while.
Also, it’s okay if I’m not glued to my computer dreaming up blog posts that are only read by a thousand people.
I’ve got a life.
It’s time to live it instead of constantly writing about things I want to do and men I occasionally date.