Do you believe in the concept of SOULMATES?
That is, that there’s someone out there for you who is your perfect match and that you are INTENDED for each other?
You know what I think?
I think it’s a line of bull intended to sell seminars to lonely people who just want to find someone to be with and who will pay to learn all the tricks to meet them.
If you ask me, there’s more than one RIGHT person out there for everyone, it’s just the luck of who you meet and when you meet.
Might explain why the divorce rate is so high too.
Move on to the next one when the previous one has lost its sheen.
Perhaps I’m being harsh.
After all, there is a guy I think about from time to time.
A guy from my past who “got away.”
But then I remember the problems we had and I realize, “Great guy, but not for me.”
So NOT THE ONE.
And NOT MY SOULMATE.
Don’t get me wrong, I’d like to meet someone who I can spend holidays with.
Who will introduce me to his family, take me out on the weekend, and share a home with me.
So don’t go forking over your hard-earned cash to learn how to meet your “eternal beloved.”
Honestly, the best thing I can do to meet someone RIGHT NOW?
Take a class on communication and relationships.
That would improve ALL ASPECTS OF MY LIFE and PREPARE ME TO BE A THOUGHTFUL PARTNER TO ANOTHER PERSON.
And that’s not bitterness talking.