I’ve noticed that there are men who are loathe to wear a condom, even when they’re simply hooking up with a partner for the night.
It’s a little bit shocking, to say the least.
What ever happened to safe sex and the older generation?
Quite honestly, I worry more about unintended pregnancy than I do about STDs which is probably bad, but I am still smart enough to at least suggest a condom.
Remember that one time I was stealthed?
Yeah, the guy took the condom from me then DIDN’T PUT IT ON and instead PULLED OUT AT THE EXACT WORST MOMENT SO THAT HE COULD COME ALL OVER MY BACK, thereby notifying me that I’d been duped into having sex without a condom?
Yeah, that’s a little bit what I’m talking about.
Of course, that behavior borderlines on criminal, I think.
So let’s set it aside for a minute.
What about the casual guy who just simply doesn’t like condoms?
The guy who isn’t worried about pregnancy (because maybe he is shooting blanks)?
I think it’s a generational thing.
Younger men don’t question condoms. They use them by the cartloads. They know – NO BABIES AND NO STDs.
Now, part of me think perhaps it’s not just that bareback sex FEELS better.
Perhaps it’s because of “challenges in the plumbing department.”
What diminishes the sensation also can diminish. . . well, the “device.”
And Lord knows no one wants that to happen.
Then the fun is OVER.
For me, barebacking is for the guy who is a boyfriend. It’s for the guy I’m willing to go on birth control for.
It’s not for the casual hookup.
And it’s certainly not for the guy with criminal tendencies who is willing to TRICK me into doing it.
Call me crazy, but if I get a little skin on skin action, it’s gonna be with someone who I think has some sort of role in my life, when there’s birth control in place, and appropriate STD testing.
That’s just how I roll.