What comes first: sex or oral sex?

imageThe first thing you need to know about whether or not sex or oral sex comes first is that


Perhaps because it was a non-anonymous Facebook poll.

Makes sense.

The second thing you need to know is that men WILL respond to a non-anonymous Facebook poll.

Why the discrepancy?  Is there a difference between men who admit to eating pussy and women who admit to sucking cock?

Maybe it’s because blasting “I suck cock” all over Facebook doesn’t raise a woman’s image whereas admitting to eating pussy just increases our perception of his virility.  Could this be the terrible double standard rearing its ugly head?

Are we still so judgmental that a sexual woman is something we look down on?

If I can speak from experience, I would say a resounding YES.

People are judgmental of a sexual woman.  Because of this blog, I’ve been called crazy, tacky, trashy, perverted, and my personal favorite “totally lacking in class and morals” (and that was just my sister).

So what’s a girl to do if she has a serious question and no one will answer?

Put out an anonymous poll, of course.  So here you go…. if you’re a man or a woman you are invited to participate or email me at michelle@unblunder.com.