I ignore red flags MOST of the time.
Some guy calls his ex-wife a narcissist and I look the other way.
Another guy tells me I have a lazy eye over drinks and I laugh and make excuses.
So when the newest guy made a joke about my sister and I in a porno together, I ALMOST let it slide.
But I didn’t.
I called him out on it.
I’m not sure why I didn’t let it slide.
Actually I do.
I made excuses for one guy’s behavior not too long ago and he lived up to my (ignored) first impression of him.
So this time I didn’t want to ignore it.
Yeah, I GET THAT IT’S A FUCKING JOKE.
BUT IT’S A DISGUSTING ONE!
Who, when trying to put their best foot forward upon meeting a new woman, makes a porn joke about her and her sister?
Who makes porn jokes BEFORE the first date?
A man with his mind in the gutter?
A man with no manners?
A man who clearly is suffering from a lack of social skills?
Regardless of WHY he did it, the end result is the same.
The fucking hammer has fallen and YOU HAVE BEEN VOTED OFF THE ISLAND!
Barbara would be so proud. . .