Tie Dye vs Ombre

Don’t you just LOVE Geminis?

I know I do.

I grew up with one (my sister).

They are incredibly loyal and fiercely protective of those they love.

But Geminis have two sides to them and you do not want to cross them.

You’ll feel the heat.

I will be celebrating another Gemini’s birthday this weekend.

MotherP is having a birthday celebration.

The theme is her favorite colors – teal and lavender.

All my lavender and teal clothes are “work appropriate” and not exactly “party material” so of course I had to go shopping for something better.

I found this tie dye dress which seemed to fit the bill.

But it’s coming from Hong Kong, which means sizing and on time delivery are questionable so I HAD to get a backup dress:

This one I LOVE.

It’s so pretty with all it’s colors bleeding into each other.

Way more subtle transitions than tie dye.

Of course, I’m not sure the fascinator hat I bought will work with BOTH outfits:

Which one do you like?

Accessorize, accessorize, accessorize

My Labyrinth themed ballgown (aka quinceañera dress) is coming along nicely.

At least I hope it is since I ordered it online.

Meanwhile, I’ve been throwing around ideas on how to properly accessorize the dress (and wings).

This is the outfit:

I’ve been thinking that one of the following necklace, choker, or collar might look good with the dress:

Here’s a lovely necklace with matching earrings which goes well with the silver wings:

Then there’s this edgy purple collar, complete with D-ring.  Perfect for making a Labyrinth fairytale dress into something more edgy for Burning Man:

And finally, a lovely little glitter choker which matches the dress:

Of course, I also have these lovely earrings to go with the collar and choker which match the beading on the dress:

So my question to you is WHICH ONE SHOULD I WEAR?

Here’s a little inspiration for your visual pleasure which gives you an idea of the look I’m going for:

The good news is that I’ll have lots of friends to ask at UnSCruz which necklace to wear – from my BFF Tejas, to my friend Bad Boy, to my partner in crime Marina!  One way or another, I’ll figure it out.


What comes first: sex or oral sex?

imageThe first thing you need to know about whether or not sex or oral sex comes first is that


Perhaps because it was a non-anonymous Facebook poll.

Makes sense.

The second thing you need to know is that men WILL respond to a non-anonymous Facebook poll.

Why the discrepancy?  Is there a difference between men who admit to eating pussy and women who admit to sucking cock?

Maybe it’s because blasting “I suck cock” all over Facebook doesn’t raise a woman’s image whereas admitting to eating pussy just increases our perception of his virility.  Could this be the terrible double standard rearing its ugly head?

Are we still so judgmental that a sexual woman is something we look down on?

If I can speak from experience, I would say a resounding YES.

People are judgmental of a sexual woman.  Because of this blog, I’ve been called crazy, tacky, trashy, perverted, and my personal favorite “totally lacking in class and morals” (and that was just my sister).

So what’s a girl to do if she has a serious question and no one will answer?

Put out an anonymous poll, of course.  So here you go…. if you’re a man or a woman you are invited to participate or email me at michelle@unblunder.com.