I’ve been relying HEAVILY on online dating applications to introduce me to people, yet so very few of the men I meet become friends.
My success rate is seriously DOWN IN THE DUMPS right now.
Obviously, with my track record of online dating being so poor, it’s hard to understand why I continue to try my hand at it.
The answer is simple: It makes me FEEL like I’m accomplishing something.
I’m meeting men, though they’re not right for me, and what more can I do besides make an effort to get to know single available men.
The problem is that men are easy to come by and the slightest red flag sends me running.
I know I’m guilty of not investing as much as I should on a first date because it’s real easy to arrange another first date with another acceptable man.
But if you stand at the end of that long road, and look back – it’s a rather uninteresting and somewhat painful journey.
Particularly when you had no idea you’d be living so much of your adult life in an uncoupled up state.
I like being single when the alternative is being with someone who doesn’t make me happy.
But when the alternative is love, I’m 100% for leaving singlehood behind.
I’m not sure why finding someone who makes me happy is taking so long.
Going forward into 2021, I’ve decided to lay off the online dating websites for a while.
Not because I’m giving up, but because I recognize a stagnant pattern when I see one.
Now, in order for me to meet a man, he’s going to have to be the one who is looking.
Because I’m done with that.