I have a couple unprofessional observations I’ve made while dating.
Do not date men who are 45+ who have never been married or had kids. They tend to be hard to please and uncompromising.
Do not date men who haven’t been divorced longer than 2 years. They tend to avoid commitment.
Do not date men with a full online dating portfolio of pictures of themselves. They tend to be self absorbed and vain.
On the flip side, I noticed something that I do appreciate in the men I date.
Yes, men with daughters I have noticed are more compassionate and more patient than men without daughters.
I’ll give you an example:
I was so excited about my upcoming trip to Sweden that I got a Swedish manicure – completed with yellow and blue nail polish and the Swedish flag.
As a woman, I was totally jazzed about my manicure.
So jazzed that I texted The Swede.
Instead of just blowing me off or laughing at my girlishness, he was kind and let me prattle on about my nails.
He even told me they were cool!
I attribute his sensitivity to the fact that he has two daughters and knows how to accommodate the female into his life.
Some men don’t know what to do with it.
And though it’s going to sound awkward coming at the end of a post where I talk about The Swede, without actually admitting anything, I just want to say that I sincerely hope that I wind up marrying a man with daughters.
If for no reason than I find that kind of sensitivity VERY APPEALING.